36” x 40” x 1.5”
Acrylic, flashe, pastel on canvas
2022
Wear more makeup, smile more, be funny, be nicer!
(you were asking for it)
Do your nails, buy new clothes, get better shoes!
(you spend too much money)
Make your lips bigger, your waist smaller, get rid of those elevens, whiten your teeth!
(you’re so vain)
Lose some weight!
(your tits are too small)
Body fat is bad!
(you need a bigger ass)
The pill is bad for you, take better care of yourself!
(abortions are illegal)
Get engaged, get married, have kids, work hard!
(you let yourself go)
Be the best employee you can be!
(you don’t care about your family)
Be a stay-at-home-mom, your kids are number one!
(you’re too lazy to get a real job)
Know what you want, don’t play games!
(you’re too picky)
Go on dates, gain experiences, don’t settle!
(you’re slutty)
You’re beautiful the way you are!
(be more like her)
Be confident, be independent, follow your dreams!
(you’re intimidating)
This painting is part of the Enough is Enough collection that features stories about betrayal, manipulation, abuse, control and a lack of rights for women.
Inspired by the current state of affairs in the USA after the overturning of Roe vs. Wade in which men are once again making decisions for women and their bodies in order to keep minorities controlled and silenced - this type of manipulation and abuse is something that women, the trans community and other minorities have experienced in the home for years. Disguising the criminalization of abortion as a pro-life decision is a disservice to the people who are losing the right to live their lives on their own terms. Abuse, neglect, gas-lighting and manipulation are tactics used by the oppressor to maintain control over a person, or in this case, an entire group of people. The name Pat is used to address the Patriarchy throughout this collection.
This collection is an expression of rage directed at those who have the audacity to claim to be acting in the best interest of those whom they are controlling.
More info about this product:
This painting was hand-stretched by the artist in her studio on 1.5" gallery frames. It can be hung as an exposed canvas, or framed in a floating wood frame for a more polished look. This painting comes with an artist statement and signature. If you purchase this painting you will be contacted by the artist for more information about pick-up options in downtown Hamilton, Ontario, or delivery/shipping information.
Please note that the buyer is responsible for any shipping charges and/or for picking up the painting, but the artist will facilitate the process by obtaining quotes, packaging the product safely, and bringing it to a shipping centre at no extra cost. Reach out to the artist directly through the Contact page for any inquiries regarding this piece.
*This is an original painting by Tania LaCaria, there is only one in the world. Frame not included.